Eats on Feets and the 4 Pillars of Safe Milksharing My breastmilk days are long over to be clear; breastfeeding is a fond memory of a growingly distant past. I was blessed and lucky. I nursed my 4 babies well past the AAP's recommendation of breastfeeding for at least one year (at the time). I didn't have any problems that I can remember and I didn't need to express milk because I was able to stay at home. Milksharing was not on my radar at the time. I did cross-nurse someone